Dylan O’Brien is in the spotlight, but not for the reasons you might think. Recently, during an interview, he shared his gratitude for his “trans, nonbinary sibling.” This sparked interest, but his brother, Julz, revealed on Instagram that their relationship isn’t as close as it seems. In fact, they haven’t spoken in over a year.
In the interview with Gay Times, Dylan expressed appreciation for his sibling’s impact on his life and connections in the queer community. While he referred to Julz as nonbinary, Julz clarified that he identifies as “trans masc.” This mix-up highlights the importance of using accurate language in discussions of identity, especially in the media.
Julz commented on the post about the interview, stating he hasn’t received any messages from Dylan, not even for significant events like his birthday or top surgery. His feelings were clear as he sarcastically remarked, “But glad I could deepen his experience in this world.” This reflects the complexity of familial relationships, particularly when intertwined with issues of identity and public perception.
This situation speaks to a broader trend where the narratives shared by public figures are sometimes at odds with their personal lives. Recent data suggests that over 50% of LGBTQ+ youth feel their identity is often misunderstood or misrepresented in media. To add context, a survey by the Human Rights Campaign found that many young people face challenges like this behind closed doors, despite what is portrayed publicly.
Dylan’s current press tour for his movie “Ponyboi,” which explores themes of identity and sexuality, raises questions about his intentions when discussing his brother. It can be perceived as an attempt to show allyship while perhaps not fully engaging with the realities of that relationship. As the conversation around gender identity continues to evolve, it’s crucial for celebrities to approach these discussions with care and respect.
As of now, Dylan has not commented on Julz’s statements. This situation invites us to reflect on how public discourse about family can sometimes obscure the personal truths that lie beneath the surface. In a world striving for understanding and openness, it’s vital for everyone, public figures included, to communicate honestly, especially regarding their loved ones.