Reddit users urge man to divorce his wife after ‘psychic’ interferes with his marriage

A Reddit person is following by means of with divorcing his wife after her “psychic” pal falsely knowledgeable her that he was dishonest. 

“AITAH for refusing to take into account stopping our divorce after my ex admitted her ‘psychic’ friend lied about me having an affair?” requested Reddit person “Successful-Top3827” in a Friday, May 3 submit on Reddit’s “AITAH” subreddit. 

“AITAH” stands for “Am I the a–hole here.” 

It’s comparable to the “Am I the A–hole” subreddit. 

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In the submit, Successful-Top3827 mentioned he met his wife, Rhona, in school, and that he “made the obviously terrible assumption that the fact she was in post-secondary education meant she had a modicum of common sense.” 

The couple lived collectively for 2 years earlier than marrying — and at their marriage ceremony, Successful-Top3827 met a pal of Rhona’s, Anna, he wrote in his submit. 

A Reddit person requested others to choose his conduct after he determined to transfer forward with divorcing his wife. The lady, he mentioned, believed a “psychic” pal of hers who claimed that her husband was having an affair — when he wasn’t. Yet she wouldn’t consider him.  (iStock/Getty)

“At our wedding I met an outdated pal of hers, Anna. She provided to learn my palm since she was half gypsy,” he mentioned — which he discovered “weird,” he mentioned. 

“I am in construction and I know a few people from that group, and they call themselves Roma,” he mentioned.

Anna, mentioned Successful-Top3827, is a seamstress in New York City and doesn’t incessantly go to. He and his wife solely noticed her “maybe four times” over the last two years, most not too long ago throughout Labor Day in 2023. 

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“And that’s when it got weird. All of a sudden Rhona starts acting oddly,” he mentioned. 

“She starts checking in on me at work. Coming by when I’m working late. Asking to use my phone because hers is almost out of power. That sort of thing.” 

Eventually, Rhona accused Successful-Top3827 of having an affair — which he thought was a joke.

“This sets her off like a Roman candle.” 

“I laugh and say I am not,” he mentioned. “This sets her off like a Roman candle. Because Anna told her I would laugh it off when Rhona came for the truth.”

Successful-Top3827 laughed, he revealed, because the idea of him having an affair was “ridiculous” due to his work schedule and the truth that he is with his wife more often than not he isn’t at work, he mentioned. 

A man on Reddit claimed that his marriage got here to an finish after a “psychic” pal of his wife’s informed her he was having an affair.  (iStock)

“And most important of all, I love my wife. I wouldn’t do anything to harm her,” he mentioned.

“And yet she takes the word of Anna the psychic seamstress over mine.” 

Rhona then proceeded to ask Successful-Top3827 to transfer out, and he refused — as he had nowhere else to go, he wrote. Instead, Rhona moved in with her parents.

“My dad told me to give my head a shake, which he only does when I am being monumentally stupid.” 

“They think she is nuts, too,” he wrote to others. 

Successful-Top3827 then “spent the next few months” trying to persuade his wife that he was not having an affair. 

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Rhona’s household stored quiet concerning the state of affairs until Christmas, once they “had an intervention,” he detailed in his submit.

“They said my wife was having a break from reality and that she wasn’t coming out of it. My dad told me to give my head a shake, which he only does when I am being monumentally stupid,” he mentioned. 

In January, Successful-Top3827 started the method of getting a divorce, he mentioned. Three months later, in April, he wrote, “Rhona calls me to talk.” 

The Reddit person’s wife solely realized her “psychic” pal was incorrect after a personal investigator (not pictured) couldn’t discover any proof of an affair.  (iStock)

“Turns out [she] and her parents hired a private detective to find my affair. Six months and a huge bill later, zero evidence of an affair,” he mentioned. 

“She finally believes me and wants to come home.” 

Having none of it, Successful-Top3827 informed the girl that their lease was up in July — and he could be shifting to Denver to be nearer to his household. 

“She says she would come with me. I respectfully declined. I told her we just weren’t right for each other,” he mentioned. 

“The truth is I do not want to have my offspring share DNA with this dingbat.” 

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Rhona’s household, nonetheless, is seemingly upset that Successful-Top3827 is shifting forward with the divorce. 

“Her family has approached me several times. The last time her dad offered to front us a 25% down payment on a house if I agree[d] to go to marriage counseling instead of just leaving,” he mentioned. 

“I politely declined. I cannot be bought.” 

In the almost 2,400 feedback on the Reddit submit to date, nearly all those that chimed in on the connection drama agreed that the man was “NTA” — and that he ought to transfer ahead with the divorce. (iStock)

Meanwhile, “Rhona is now depressed, but I see no way of ever trusting her again,” the man wrote. 

“She is young enough she can marry again and wreck some other guy’s life,” mentioned Successful-Top3827. 

So — he requested others — “AITAH?” 

“I do not want to have my offspring share DNA with this dingbat.”

Fox News Digital reached out to Successful-Top3827 and a relationship knowledgeable for remark.

On the AITAH subreddit, individuals can reply to posts and point out the poster is “NTA” (“Not the A–hole”), “YTA” (“You’re the A–hole”), “NAH” (“No A–holes Here”) or “ESH” (“Everyone Sucks Here”).

Users can “upvote” feedback they discover useful, and “downvote” these they don’t.

In the almost 2,400 feedback to the submit to date, nearly all who chimed in agreed that Successful-Top3827 was “NTA” — and that he ought to transfer ahead with the divorce.

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“Absolutely NTA. At least you found out before having kids! I can only imagine how that relationship would have been, going forward. Every new magazine quiz or daytime talk show would lead to a new accusation,” mentioned Reddit person “rwj212” within the top-upvoted remark.

Another high commenter mentioned that Successful-Top3827’s marriage was over after Rhona took the phrases of a psychic over her personal husband. 

“The fact that she then convinced her parents to hire a [private investigator] to get info on your infidelities is just the icing on the top,” mentioned person “Fit_Reason7319” in one other high remark. 

The Reddit person filed for divorce in January. In April, his father-in-law provided to pay 25% of a down cost on a home if he would go to marriage counseling with his daughter and restore the connection. He declined to accomplish that. (iStock)

Fit_Reason7319 continued, “What else will she blindly believe when her psychic friend has another vision? Run, don’t walk.”

Another person wrote, “It’s crazy diabolical of her friend to throw out accusations like that. If she wanted to show off her ‘psychic’ ability, she could have made up any other number of things that wouldn’t potentially ruin a person’s life,” mentioned Reddit person “Ashamed-Source3551.”

But, this similar commenter famous, “the psychic did help you dodge a huge bullet” by making Successful-Top3827 notice early in his marriage that his wife was doubtlessly unstable.

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“Imagine if you had kids with her and her friend got a psychic vibe about you abusing the kids,” mentioned this similar individual — including that Successful-Top3827 might have wound up in jail. 

“While your situation really sucks, at least you are now free from someone so easily influenced,” mentioned Ashamed-Source3551.

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