There’s something special about the simple activities that filled our parents’ weekends. They didn’t need fancy gear or perfect setups. They were social, easy-going, and a bit messy.
As a millennial mom in São Paulo, I see why so many Gen Zers are leaning into these nostalgic vibes. Life feels slower, more connected, and less curated.
I recently finished reading Rudá Iandê’s book, “Laughing in the Face of Chaos,” which emphasizes embracing imperfection. One line stood out: “The body is not something to be feared or denied, but a sacred tool for spiritual growth.” It reminded me that old-school activities can be meaningful rituals, rather than mere events.
Here are ten classic activities worth reviving in our modern lives.
1. Roller Rinks and Bowling Nights
My mom often shared memories of saving for Friday nights at the rink. There was joy in moving together to music, no screens in sight. Bowling leagues created similar bonds, with weekly rhythms that foster deep connections. I recently enjoyed a retro roller night in São Paulo, where everyone was awkward and free–just the way it should be.
2. Drive-In Movies
There’s magic in watching films outside. You snuggle in the car, sharing snacks and whispers. While not the same, my husband and I recreate this at home with a projector and a cozy blanket. It’s about being together, without constant distractions.
3. Vinyl Listening Parties
Before streaming, we chose a record and lost ourselves in its grooves. Friends would gather, discussing favorite tracks. Music played a vital role in those evenings, urging everyone to engage. Sherry Turkle once noted that technology overshadows personal interactions. Enjoying music without distractions reminds us of the importance of presence.
4. Potlucks and Block Parties
Boomers mastered the art of easy communal meals. One person brought the main dish; another added dessert. Simplifying gatherings fosters connection. In my building, we have mini potlucks where neighbors share their favorite dishes. The food matters, but the camaraderie is what truly feeds the soul.
5. Unstructured Outdoor Time
Growing up, we used whatever we had to make games. There was freedom in roaming and playing until streetlights turned on. Now, I ensure my daughter enjoys similar open-ended play. Kids thrive on their curiosity, and adults can benefit from rediscovering that joy too.
6. Thrifting and Fixing
Sustainability was once a norm, not a trend. We learned to repair rather than replace. Saturday garage sales felt like treasure hunts. In my own life, I focus on quality over quantity, caring for what I have. Embracing simple repairs can bring joy and a sense of accomplishment.
7. Long Phone Calls and Face-to-Face Hangouts
Landlines forced us to truly listen. Distractions were minimal. I cherish our weekly date nights, where we unplug and connect deeply. Real conversations invite openness, reaffirming that presence often leads to meaningful connections.
8. Letter Writing
Before emails, letters fostered connections. You awaited replies with excitement. My relatives send postcards that calm the mind and spark nostalgia. Writing a simple note can be a rewarding experience, promoting slowness and thoughtfulness.
9. Social Dancing
Disco and swing dances were about fun, not perfection. Anyone could join in and feel the joy of movement. I seek casual dance nights whenever I travel. It’s a reminder that fun can be simple, and connecting with others is what truly matters.
10. Road Trips Without a Plan
Getting lost used to be a thrilling part of travel. We chose songs, snacked on treats, and enjoyed discoveries along the way. My husband and I often take spontaneous trips, stopping whenever the mood strikes.
Why Old-School Fun Works
Many of these activities center on social connection. They provide a rhythm, a sense of belonging, and the chance to engage with our hands. This combination helps counteract modern overstimulation. Sometimes, it’s about embracing the chaos, as Rudá Iandê suggests; authenticity matters more than perfection.
This month, I’m embracing the joy of these activities. I’ll host a mini potluck, hit the roller rink, and write a letter to my grandmother. It doesn’t need to be perfect; it just needs to happen. Fun grows when you make room for it in your life.
In a world filled with distractions, let’s remember to seek joy in the ordinary. Each of these activities can lead us back to what truly matters.
