You and I grew up in a world buzzing with distractions. Notifications pop up everywhere—be it on social media, that game we play, or those cryptocurrency prices we keep checking. It can feel overwhelming. In my busy twenties, I experienced the energy of crowded dining rooms, where every dish needed to impress. Through it all, I learned that staying calm and focused is a skill we can refine.
Here are seven habits that help younger folks remain composed and engaged:
Grayscale Phones with Scheduled Notifications
Setting your phone to grayscale may seem odd, but it really helps. The vibrant colors disappear, and apps don’t scream for your attention. Plus, batching notifications to check them just a few times a day means fewer distractions. When someone needs you urgently, they will call.Body Doubling
Ever watch those study livestreams where someone sits at their desk in silence? This is called body doubling. It works because having another person around can inspire you to focus. I often join a virtual coworking session or sit in a cafe, just to feel that shared focus in the air.Consistent Soundtracks for Work
There’s a saying, “Music gives a soul to the universe.” For our brains, a steady, non-lyrical soundtrack can signal that it’s time to work. I like lo-fi beats or brown noise. After a while, just hearing that sound lets your brain know to dive into work mode.Capsule Meals
Decision fatigue is real. To simplify nutrition, try capsule meals—quick, healthy meals that need minimal thought. My go-to is overnight oats or a quinoa bowl. This way, I save mental energy for work instead of worrying about food choices.Two-Minute Mindfulness
Meditation can feel daunting. Instead, try two-minute resets. Do some box breathing or take a moment to notice your surroundings. It’s a small break that helps bring your mind back to the present.Quick Cold Refresh
Cold exposure can be refreshing without needing a full cold shower. Dunk your face in icy water or run cold water over your wrists. It’s surprising how effective this quick reset can be, especially before a big event.Analog Moments in a Digital World
Amidst all these screen distractions, carry a small notebook. Write down busy thoughts or tasks, allowing your mind to settle. Keeping a list of just three important tasks can help you feel accomplished by day’s end.
The bottom line? Calm and focus are practices we can implement. They may look unusual to some, but that’s okay. The aim is to manage your energy and stress. Building a quieter mind can lead to a more fulfilling life.
With habits that promote calm, you create a better space for focus. As you explore these practices, remember that everyone has their own way of staying engaged. What matters is finding what works best for you.
In our fast-paced world, it’s all about managing your pace and finding balance. Embrace it—your life can be calmer and more focused.

