Last week, I witnessed something that sparked a thought. A woman parked her cart diagonally in the cereal aisle, completely absorbed in comparing every box of bran flakes. Meanwhile, a line of frustrated shoppers, including me, waited impatiently to pass. When someone politely said, “excuse me,” she looked genuinely surprised.
This scene got me wondering about common grocery store habits that might seem innocent to some but can turn shopping into a real challenge.
Over time, I’ve noticed certain behaviors, especially among older generations who learned to shop in less crowded and slower-paced environments. These habits might have worked back in the day but can create unnecessary delays today. Let’s break down some of these behaviors—not to shame anyone but to bring awareness to our shopping habits.
Writing Checks at Checkout
In 2024, watching someone write a check at the register feels like a scene from the past. It slows things down for everyone. While some might prefer checks for financial control, faster options like tap-to-pay take only seconds and keep things moving.
Blocking Aisles with Carts
Cart placement is crucial. Parking a cart perpendicular to the shelves creates a barrier for others. A simple tip? Pull your cart to the side. It makes things smoother for everyone.
Abandoning Carts
Leaving carts in random spots is frustrating. Carts don’t have autopilots! This habit can lead to blocked parking spaces or scratched cars. Remember that grocery workers often gather these in harsh weather.
Arguing About Expired Coupons
It can be tough to see a good deal slip away, but expired means expired. Holding up the line for a coupon that’s past its date only adds to the stress for everyone waiting.
Confusing Self-Checkout
Self-checkout is meant to be quick, yet many treat it like a learning moment. If you need help with the tech, it’s totally fine to use regular lanes. Just remember, being slow doesn’t align with its purpose.
Squeezing Produce
At a farmers’ market, inspecting produce gently is courteous. But squeezing every avocado in a supermarket? It risks bruising the entire batch. A light squeeze should do!
Demanding Manager Interventions
Minor inconveniences shouldn’t always require a manager. Complaining about non-issues only adds to their stress and takes time away from real problems.
Ignoring Pandemic Courtesy
We learned about personal space during the pandemic, yet that awareness seems to have faded. Coughing openly or standing too close to someone is inconsiderate. Let’s remember those lessons!
Taking Too Long at the Deli Counter
The deli is not a buffet. Knowing what you want before arriving can speed things up. The samples are there to help, not to create delays.
Most of these habits stem from a time when shopping was slower and more leisurely. Today, we live in a fast-paced world filled with more customers and less patience. Small adjustments in how we shop can enhance everyone’s experience.
In 2021, a survey showed that 70% of shoppers feel frustrated by others’ behaviors in stores (source: National Retail Federation). It highlights the need for everyone to be mindful of their actions.
Let’s make grocery shopping a little easier for everyone. After all, we all want to grab our items and head home without unnecessary stress.

