Everyone loves to point fingers at millennials. But, according to Bloomberg reporter Charlie Wells, that criticism might not be fair. In his upcoming book, What Happened to Millennials, he defends his generation. Millennials grew up with high hopes, only to see those dreams crumble, leaving them feeling let down.
Wells mentions a social experiment in the ’80s and ’90s that aimed to boost kids’ self-esteem. While the intention was good, it led to some unexpected issues, like a generation obsessed with perfection and anxious for genuine feedback.
As millennials step into roles as parents, teachers, and leaders, it’s essential to share their real story.
Critics often label this generation as selfish. They associate millennials with trends like “selfies” and extravagant spending on things like avocado toast, instead of saving for the future. They’re also seen as delaying major life events like marriage and parenthood. This stereotype is backed by a narrative that technology—smartphones and social media—has made them self-centered.
But technology is only part of the equation. The emphasis on self-esteem from a young age played a huge role too. In fact, many psychologists argue that this shift affected how millennials view themselves and their responsibilities. For example, research from the Pew Research Center shows only 42% of millennials feel they are thriving, compared to older generations.
Moreover, millennials are shaping new societal norms as they rise to power. With over 50% of millennials becoming parents, their values around mental health and balance are influencing the next generation. The focus on self-care and transparency in parenting is changing the narrative, moving from superficial to meaningful connections.
So, while the buzz around millennials often seems harsh, a deeper look reveals a generation navigating a complex world shaped by unique challenges. Instead of simply labeling them “selfish,” we should consider their experiences and the impact of societal changes they’ve faced.
