Let’s be honest. You probably have a Coach bag or some Michael Kors shades tucked away. They give off a vibe, right?
But here’s the truth: true luxury brands don’t need to shout their logos. They’re subtle, almost whispering their worth. If you’re confusing flashy logos with real luxury, it may say more about your perspective than you think.
This isn’t about shaming anyone; it’s about understanding why we buy the brands we do and what they mean in the broader picture.
Take Coach, for example. Once, owning a Coach bag felt like a badge of honor. I remember saving for ages just to buy one for my girlfriend. But Coach is what’s known as “accessible luxury.” They churn out bags by the thousands and often have sales. True luxury brands, like Hermès, make their pieces rare. You won’t find a sale on a Chanel bag, for instance.
Michael Kors has taken this concept even further. The MK logos are everywhere, but does that scream confidence or insecurity? Genuine luxury speaks for itself. You rarely see brands like Brunello Cucinelli plastering their logos. Michael Kors, meanwhile, plays to a market that wants that designer feel without the hefty price tag. It’s about showing off just enough.
And then there’s Kate Spade. It’s colorful and fun but hardly luxury. It connects emotionally with young women starting their careers. A Kate Spade tote can symbolize entering adulthood. But if you think you’ve arrived at luxury with Kate Spade, you may still be on the path to finding it.
Tory Burch straddles the line between contemporary and luxury well. At local coffee shops, I often see women with Burch bags. The truly wealthy often carry bags you might not recognize. The Burch bags, while nice, can signal a desire to project success without the real investment of high-end luxury.
Ralph Lauren adds complexity. While the brand has luxury lines, many people wear mass-market versions. Spotting someone in a Polo shirt doesn’t always mean they’re in luxury territory—it’s more like saying you own a Mercedes while leasing a lower-tier model.
Calvin Klein is another brand that democratizes luxury. Their underwear and perfumes are ubiquitous. But wearing Calvin Klein doesn’t mean you’re part of an elite group; it’s mainstream. And that’s okay, but we should recognize the difference.
Burberry, with its iconic check, has faced similar struggles. The pattern is so widely copied and sold at outlets that it now feels less exclusive. True luxury thrives on scarcity. Seeing Burberry scarves in discount stores dilutes the brand’s appeal.
Then we have Marc Jacobs. While the designer is highly regarded, the brand doesn’t quite reach luxury status. Many of their products are aimed at younger consumers, making them accessible. It’s designer fashion made easy, but the price point shows the difference between designer and true luxury.
At the end of the day, there’s no shame in buying from these brands. They offer quality and style. But questioning what these purchases mean can provide insight into how we view ourselves and how we wish to be perceived.
Many people mistakenly equate accessible luxury with real luxury. These brands are adept at selling the idea of success, not the reality of it. True luxury is quiet, confident, and exclusive. So, next time you pick up that Coach bag or those Michael Kors shades, think about why you’re choosing them. Are they a reflection of your style, or are you leaning into what you think luxury should be?
Reflecting on this could lead to a deeper understanding of yourself—and that, my friend, is where true luxury lies.

