Actors often say, “If you’re not getting work, create it.” Alexi Wasser takes this advice to heart with her film, “Messy.” It’s about a single woman in her thirties, navigating love and lust in search of Mr. Right.
Wasser’s character, Stella, dives into a whirlwind of fleeting connections and passionate encounters. She bares not just her body but also her soul in a quest to understand her desires. The film’s humor leans more towards boldness than laughs. Few actresses would dare expose themselves this way, both literally and figuratively.
Stella’s adventures unfold in New York, where she juggles various partners, from bartenders to older men. She often overshares her feelings, flaunting a carefree attitude while simultaneously revealing deep insecurities. At one point, she describes herself as “just a chunky girl texting in a ‘LOL’ world,” highlighting her struggle with self-acceptance, even as she embraces her sexuality.
Interestingly, a seasoned character played by Ione Skye advises Stella to keep meeting Mr. Wrongs until she finds the right one. This theme rings true in reality. According to a recent survey by the Pew Research Center, over 50% of young adults experience challenges in dating and relationships, often looking for meaningful connections amidst casual encounters.
The film, however, struggles to find consistency. While there are moments that evoke a chuckle or two, the majority of the humor feels forced. It sometimes teeters into crude territory, leaving viewers questioning the balance between comedy and coarseness.
Despite its flaws, Messy offers a candid portrayal of modern dating. Wasser’s ambition is commendable, even if the film doesn’t fully hit its mark. It’s a mix of sincerity and provocation that reflects our current societal landscape—a world where dating can be both liberating and confusing.
Ultimately, Messy, while trying to tackle serious subjects, may leave audiences wondering: is it more mess than meaning? As for Wasser, her bold move might just be her ticket to future projects—if her family is supportive of her daring approach.
Rating: 16+, for explicit content.
Cast: Alexi Wasser, Adam Goldberg, Ruby McCollister, Merlot, Thomas Middleditch, Mario Cantone, Ione Skye.
Credits: Written and directed by Alexi Wasser, available on Amazon Prime.
Running time: 1 hour 22 minutes.
For additional insights on dating in today’s world, you can refer to the Pew Research Center’s recent report.
