I just arrived in Fredericksburg, Texas, to gear up for our fall RV rally. Excitement was buzzing in the air. I had my outfit ready: shiny boots, crisp jeans, and my prized possession—a stylish black-felt cowboy hat sitting comfortably in the passenger seat. This hat is the real deal, not some cheap imitation. It’s authentic, well-worn, and carries a swagger only a good cowboy hat can.
Back in Michigan, cowboy hats are rare. But in Texas, I was eager to rock mine. Then the reality of cowboy culture hit me. While I was unhitching the RV, Jen chatted with fellow rally-goers Dan and Tina Caswel, both Texas natives. Dan is a true cowboy—he’s farmed, ranched, and delivered racehorses across the country. He caught wind of my hat plans and shared some cowboy etiquette.
Apparently, wearing a black felt hat before November is a big no-no in Texas. I felt a bit crushed; this hat was an expensive Christmas gift from Wendy and her brothers. I had dreamt of my grand appearance all week, but traditions run deep here, like the saying “Don’t mess with Texas.”
As it turns out, cowboy hat etiquette is serious business. The rule is simple: wear straw hats from Easter to Labor Day and break out the felt hats as the weather cools. Felt hats are made from animal fur and are meant to keep you warm. In contrast, straw hats are light and breathable, perfect for the scorching Texas sun.
On the day we arrived, the temperature soared to 90 degrees. It didn’t take long for me to understand the reason behind this guideline. Wearing felt in the heat isn’t just a style mistake; it risks overheating.
Beyond seasonal advice, cowboy hat etiquette runs deep. You take off your hat indoors, especially at someone’s home or during meals. It’s a way to show respect. When you’re introduced to someone, tipping your hat is a courteous gesture. And please, never rest your hat brim-down; that’s considered bad luck and bad manners.
As I stood there, I knew what I had to do. I was off to find a proper straw hat. My beloved Resistol would have to wait until November. Lesson learned: in Texas, respecting tradition is key. It’s not just about style; it’s about honoring a way of life that’s been cherished for generations.
So here I go, humbled, ready to embrace straw season. My felt hat and I will have our day, just not today.
