Incels are a small part of the broader manosphere, but many of them follow a troubling belief system known as the Blackpill ideology. This nihilistic view can lead to a withdrawal from activities like education and work, resulting in the NEET classification—those Not in Education, Employment, or Training.
Researcher Beckett-Herbert notes, “It’s not that large numbers of young men are falling into this trap. Their beliefs are fringe, yet the community is growing. What started as focus on romantic failure is now expanding to a wider disconnection from society. That trend is concerning.”
The NEET trend speaks to a larger cultural issue: boys and young men are facing distinct challenges today. Past studies often emphasized violence and misogyny among incels. However, “looking at unemployment provides a deeper insight,” Beckett-Herbert explains. “We can care about women’s issues while recognizing that young men are also struggling. These concerns aren’t mutually exclusive.”
Beckett-Herbert and her research partner, sociologist Eran Shor, focused on a popular incels forum for their study. They gathered data from over 10,000 discussions, focusing on terms like “study,” “job,” and “money.” One phrase stood out: “lie down and rot.” It reflects a disheartening mindset many in this group seem to share.
Interestingly, a survey shows that in 2022, about 14% of young adults in the U.S. reported feeling disconnected or disengaged, similar to NEET figures. This statistic highlights a growing issue across different demographics—a sense of hopelessness among youth that transcends any single group. Addressing this requires understanding and empathy on all sides.
As society continues to evolve, we must work together—not just to support women and girls but also to create pathways for young men to find purpose and connection. Understanding these complex social dynamics is essential for fostering a healthier community for all.
For further insights on youth disengagement, refer to resources like the Pew Research Center’s recent studies on social trends.