Isolation takes many forms. Sometimes it’s social, other times psychological or physical. “The Incomer” dives into these themes by showcasing the extreme isolation of a remote Scottish island where only two people live.
In this quirky film, writer and director Louis Paxton introduces us to Isla and Sandy, siblings who have been raised to fear outsiders. Their parents drilled into them the belief that any newcomer, or “incomer,” brings lies to make the outside world seem better than it is.
The film has a whimsical yet dark tone, reminiscent of Yorgos Lanthimos’s “Dogtooth,” where parents also isolate their children from society. Isla and Sandy are now adults, but the impact of their sheltered upbringing is clear. With strong performances, the film captures the siblings’ struggle as they navigate their peculiar lives.
Domhnall Gleeson plays Daniel, the bewildered outsider who arrives on the island. His attempts to connect with Isla and Sandy often lead to absurd moments, highlighting their stunted emotional growth. Sandy relies heavily on Isla, who takes on a parental role despite her own immaturity. Their interactions are full of comedic tension, especially when modern items, like a sex toy, create chaos in their home.
Beautiful black-and-white animations by Selina Wagner tell Isla’s backstory, giving the film a fairy-tale quality. Birds play a significant role, symbolizing the siblings’ feelings of entrapment. When outsiders come near, Isla and Sandy take to the skies, battling in outfits resembling pagan mythos.
Daniel’s arrival forces the siblings to confront their isolated existence. At first, they attack him, but as he attempts to bridge their world with his own, they form an unexpected bond. The film beautifully explores the themes of loneliness, family ties, and the struggle to adapt to change. It’s a humorous reflection on what it means to be connected or alone.
“The Incomer” encourages viewers to think about their own lives in relation to others. Daniel’s journey reveals the complexities of modern living, with both pros and cons that we often overlook in our busy lives. Through laughter and warmth, the film reminds us that connection is a journey filled with surprises and lessons.
Recent statistics highlight that over 30% of adults in the UK report feelings of loneliness, emphasizing the relevance of this film. As we navigate our increasingly digital lives, “The Incomer” serves as a poignant reminder of the need for genuine human connection.
For more on the rising concerns about isolation in modern society, you can check the latest findings in this Mental Health Foundation report.

