Let’s have a candid chat about culture. I used to think I was well-traveled—reading books, tasting sushi, and visiting a few countries. Then I moved to Vietnam, and everything changed.
True culture isn’t about ticking boxes or collecting stamps in your passport. It’s those eye-opening moments that reshape your understanding of the world and your place in it.
After living abroad and diving into Eastern philosophy, I’ve realized that certain experiences can completely change how you see life. If you haven’t gone through these ten experiences yet, it might be time to step outside your comfort zone.
1. Living in a Non-English Speaking Country
When I arrived in Saigon, ordering coffee was a challenge. I relied on hand gestures and translation apps. It taught me about humility and patience. Being lost in translation helped me connect with people on a deeper level, building empathy for immigrants everywhere.
2. Reading Challenging Philosophy
Engaging with philosophy outside your comfort zone can be eye-opening. Discovering Eastern philosophy shifted my view on success, happiness, and life itself. One book that explores these themes is “Hidden Secrets of Buddhism,” which motivates readers to reflect deeply on life choices.
3. Sharing a Meal with Different Cultures
Sharing meals in Vietnam showed me that food is more than just nutrition. It’s about connection and storytelling. These experiences reveal that culture is often found around kitchen tables, rather than tourist spots.
4. Getting Lost Without Technology
Remember when getting lost was part of the adventure? Leaving my phone behind once led me to a hidden temple and some unforgettable encounters. Being disconnected allows for spontaneous moments that stick with you.
5. Witnessing Poverty
Experiencing poverty, whether through personal hardship or observing others, can drastically alter your perspective on wealth and needs. In Vietnam, I learned that happiness often exists without material wealth, which challenged my assumptions about what it takes to live a good life.
6. Learning from a Master
In a world of quick tutorials, the value of learning directly from an expert has faded. Whether it’s cooking or martial arts, this slow process teaches dedication and respect for tradition.
7. Falling in Love Across Cultures
My relationship with my Vietnamese wife opened my eyes to the complexities of cross-cultural love. It challenges everything you think you know about relationships and forces you to communicate in new ways.
8. Facing Mortality
Confronting death, through illness or loss, is transformative. Buddhism suggests that contemplating mortality helps us appreciate life more. It’s crucial to have open discussions about death, which can deepen your understanding of what truly matters.
9. Creating and Sharing
Putting your creative work out into the world is scary yet necessary. It teaches you about vulnerability, courage, and the importance of connection over perfection.
10. Experiencing Silence and Solitude
True silence is rare in our busy lives. Taking time for solitude helps you confront yourself and understand your thoughts fully. It’s where genuine self-knowledge begins.
Culture isn’t about knowing the right etiquette. It’s about experiences that challenge and reshape you. These ten moments aren’t just things to check off; they’re opportunities to grow.
While you don’t have to do them all at once, reflecting on these experiences can lead to a richer, more connected life. After all, the most interesting people are those who allow their experiences to transform them.
