Delicious Connections: How Food Fosters Community and Friendship

Students at Taylor often find themselves at Taco Bell. It’s a casual hangout spot, but it also represents something deeper — community and connection.

Scott Fenstermacher, an assistant professor at Taylor, has noticed how sharing food, whether on a run to Taco Bell or grabbing donuts, fosters fellowship among students. He believes that gathering over meals is a vital part of maintaining our relationships — with God, others, and ourselves. Food isn’t just sustenance; it’s a gift from creation that allows us to care for one another and enjoy each other’s company.

“As students, you have a unique chance to explore your relationship with God through the meals you share,” Fenstermacher explained. “Once you leave college, it may be harder to find communities like this. So enjoy it while you can.”

He emphasized that nutrition goes beyond just what we eat. It’s about the company we keep and the attitude we bring to the table. Eating together, as seen in the life of Jesus, is essential to building connections. Jesus dined with His disciples and even with outcasts, showing that meals can bridge gaps and unite people.

Chad Yoder, a pastor, echoed this belief. He shared that sharing a meal can foster intimacy and understanding, often breaking down walls language cannot. “Even without words, sharing food creates a sense of community,” he said.

Tia Cavanaugh-Goggans, who directs intercultural initiatives at Taylor, noted that meals often lead to conversations. She urged students to be open to new experiences, like inviting someone to join them for coffee or a meal. “Getting out of your comfort zone can lead to amazing connections,” she said.

Cavanaugh-Goggans highlighted that the Office of Intercultural Programs hosts a rice day every other Friday. During this event, students prepare sauces from their home countries and enjoy them over rice, creating a vibrant space for not just good food, but also friendship.

Meals bring unity to our community. Yoder reminded everyone that we all have a natural desire for connection. Finding community can often mean being proactive. He encourages people to seek out friendships, whether through local churches or groups at school. “Don’t wait for others to reach out. Be the one who makes that effort,” he advised.

In the spirit of togetherness, remember: sometimes all it takes to build a connection is to share a meal with friends — like heading to Taco Bell and enjoying some time together.