A Mother’s Journey Through Her Son’s Mental Health Struggles
The rise in pre-teen suicide attempts is alarming. Since 2008, the National Institute of Mental Health reports an annual increase of 8% among children under 11. This is a staggering figure that highlights an urgent need for awareness and support.
Carla Carlisle, a Charlotte mother, faced this nightmare when her 6-year-old son, J.C., attempted to take his own life. Even before that tragic moment, J.C. expressed dark thoughts to his kindergarten teacher. At just five years old, he was grappling with feelings that no child should have to deal with.
Carla describes J.C.’s life as living in “two worlds”: one with her and another with his birth parents. After separating from his birth family, they began a journey toward healing. This path has been challenging but transformative.
Inspired by her experiences, Carla shifted from her high-tech job to focus on mental health. She wrote a book titled Compassionate Companion to help others facing similar struggles. “When you confront life and death situations, it’s unbearable. You want to prevent others from feeling that pain,” she explains.
Through her business, she offers workshops that address mental health wellness. She works with children, helping them understand the impact of their choices, and supports parents in fostering healthier connections with their kids. Each new challenge J.C. faces presents an opportunity for growth. Now 15, J.C. occasionally joins his mother to share their story of resilience and hope.
The impact of mental health issues among children is significant. Statistics show that suicide is now the second leading cause of death for children age 10 and older. It highlights the vital need for open conversations about mental wellness. If you or someone you know is struggling, contacting the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 can be a crucial step.
Through her work, Carla aims to change the narrative around mental health and encourage families to seek help. This conversation is more important than ever, as understanding and support can make a difference in the lives of many children and their families.



















